To begin with I am not a big fan of Mexican restaurants or their featured dishes. I will admit to enjoying a margarita now and then. That enjoyment led me to meet Alex. He was the bartender at a friend of mines Mexican restaurant. He seemed like a hardworking guy just trying to make a place for his family and himself. He was the preferred mixologist when it came to what I believe was the best margarita in the area. Over about fifteen years I came to enjoy the conversations Alex and I had concerning baseball, family, and even possible real estate deals that he was considering. His boss came to trust him enough to let him run the place on the days he took off. You could say Alex was just like the rest of us, just trying to make it in this competitive world.
On tuesday of last week Alex was arrested and charged with five felony charges stemming from the drug raids in Peru. If prosecutors seek back to back terms of all counts Alex will be in jail the rest of his natural life.
Alex, who’s full name is Alejandro Arteaga, changed the way I look at people from that point forward. I am not talking about anyone’s views on legalizing drugs or making the penalties more severe, I am talking about not believing my gut when it comes to how you look at people you think you know. Most of us feel that given a period of time on this earth we gain the ability to determine a person’s character after we have known them for a little while Alex seemed like a great guy who you would love to have live next door to you. At no time did he resemble Al Pacino as Tony Montana in “Scarface” yet here he is referred to as the leader of this group recently arrested.
I don’t think I will ever trust my instincts fully when it comes to really thinking I know somebody. My only hope is that the “Alex” I knew is still there but just got caught up in something he couldn’t control. I feel sorry for his wife and children that if convicted, their lives will never be the same. Understand that if it comes out that he was just “playing” everybody than he deserves any punishment he gets……yet its hard to believe that my internal radar didn’t pick up on this over the last fifteen years……Oh well live and learn…


